friends

i have had many cliques of friends through out my life.....but one thing i noticed is that they are like your wardrobe......they run out of style but you are too stingy to throw them away....so you keep collecting more and leave the outdated ones way back in your closet..what i dont understand is when you move forward with your life the likings you had then disappear and the friends you have dont seem to be moving with you, so you find another batch of friends......why is it that we cannot move on with our friends.?my best friend is the sweetest ever.but he doesnt seem as fun as he used to be....so hes like that pair of jeans you wish would come back in style.......you want to wear it but its not really trendy...does this mean who we call friends arent really friends?are they just a part of your life......freaky ha?i shall continue with nature of people......till then read this....and think about it.......

you are not who you are, you are who you want to become

each one of us is different.we like unique things.some like to sing in the shower and some like to sleep naked.these are just peoples interests.they may sound queer but they actually arent.these unique interests are absolutely normal and those are the things which make you the person you are.because of these differences people sometimes corner you.they bully you and they insult you.if you back down from those you will never be able to live in peace because you will only do what other people think is normal.so if you want to be who you are, you have to accept yourself first.if you accept yourself everyone else will too.then you will get to be who you want to be.i felt tormented by these when i was schooling.but now i realized that stressing out about those was totally ignorant.if i stood up for myself then i would have had a better school life.but after i joined high school i started to accept myself.i started to let my inner self out and now i am a confident person.i do all the queer things in the world and not a single person points at me.that is since i dont feel vulnerable anymore and because of that, people dont get a satisfaction by letting me down because it isnt.so try to be yourself and accept yourself more.i did it and i am happy.everyone loves me for what i am now.i am a popular person among the crowd,people admire me and what i do.life has never been better.it would be for you too.
follow your heart...

sex and commitment

Why is it that some of us find it difficult to be committed when in a relationship?but yet,still have the urge for lust. Some get into relationships for ulterior motives such as sex and find it difficult to commit. Is it because we are honest to ourselves?that we are going to stay away because we cannot commit. Why not have a one night stand if it was just for sex. But we wouldn't. ?It's because we are afraid that someone might find out and tell others or that the person you are planning to meet could end up blackmailing you. But that is not the real reason. why are we so afraid is because that is not us. we are scared that people will judge us. that the image you had could be ruined. does this mean we are going to be out of sex just because we cannot commit?and why is that people in relationships can only have sex?and even worse.will the population of virgins increase because of this?think about it.it might all seem unfair. But it would be much more harmful when people start to think you are a disgrace. So why not let the urges to rest and try to make our lives better. sex is just like hunger. you eat and you get hungry again,this endless cycle continues.just like that the urge for sex comes and goes.so maybe we should think twice before our next one night stand.its better than the public humiliation and when you have to live with the guilt. family and friends wont approve what you are doing. so you keep doing it secretly.one day you could end up like total train wreck. so why keep doing it when you can save yourself now.